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Stylish neighborhood bar, cocktails and small plates, roomy enough to actually talk.

Cozy wine bar with wine cocktails and a funky-fancy food menu for lingering.

Intimate wine bar with a string-lit, foliage-draped back patio and great pours.

Candlelit cave-like wine bar down an alley, made for quiet conversation.

Warehouse wine bar with shared plates from a sommelier couple, easy and unfussy.

Cabin-like wine bar with cheese boards and tinned sardines, cozy and low-key.

Laid-back wine bar with a tight list and good pizzas for an easy night.

Moody, skylight-lit wine bar with records and shareable food.

Natural wine bar and poetry bookstore with tinned fish, charmingly offbeat.

Japanese-inspired cocktail bar with rare whiskeys and cozy wingback chairs.

Breezy New England-style bar with botanicals and well-made cocktails.

Tiny ski-lodge spot with a suspended fireplace and top-notch cocktails.

Heated courtyard, candlelight and old films on the wall over oysters: the platonic ideal of a third date.

Low-lit leather booths and decadent white bolognese built for prolonged eye contact and leaning in.

Proper Hotel rooftop with fire pits and wraparound views, buzzy and design-y enough to feel like a moment.

Sixth-floor Cantonese fine dining over Coit Tower with caviar and carved wood, dress-up romance.

Wood-fired Italian with a face-sized raviolo and a blanketed parklet for cold-night canoodling.

Curved high-backed booths at a French seafood spot literally designed to encourage snuggling.

Dark, orb-lit seafood bar from the State Bird team made for flirty knee brushes.

Marble bar and velour banquettes at a French bistro made for romantic Friday nights.

French bistro with cushioned nooks practically built for cuddling close.

Covered, secluded rooftop deck with wood-fired pizza under twinkle lights, intimate and tucked away.

Italian courtyard with a fountain, dim dangly lights and wedding-Pinterest flowers, swoony all over.

Password-only speakeasy with a hidden library room, the kind of secret that sparks a third-date charge.

Six lanes plus elevated pub fare and cocktails, so you do a thing and still get the dinner date.

Play working antique arcade machines together by the bay; quirky, cheap, endlessly hands-on date fun.

Movie-quality multi-room sets put you both in the story; solving puzzles together is a perfect date.

Five-story lead wall and 160-plus routes; rope up and climb together for a sweaty interactive date.

Story-driven escape rooms with high-tech effects; beat the clock together for a hands-on date night.

Free-roam full-body VR adventures you tackle as a team; immersive and physical, far beyond dinner.

Forty-plus pinball machines hidden in a print shop; flip and compete together for a playful cheap date.

Upscale lanes, arcade and full bar in one spot; bowl and play games together for an easy active date.

Board-game cafe with a huge library and stay-and-play vibe; pick a game and go head to head on a date.

Belay each other across 300-plus bouldering problems; teamwork climbing makes a high-energy active date.

Suit up and smash TVs and glass with bats; cathartic, very hands-on, an offbeat high-adrenaline date.